KilbyOG, Insightful Speaker on Grief in Ottawa, Ontario

Hi — welcome to UNFIXED.

I’m KilbyOG: a bereaved mother, chronic illness champion, and cult survivor. I write and speak candidly about grief, identity, and emotional agency — without jargon, labels, or pretending to have all the answers.

Since losing my son Danny in 2017, I’ve learned something most people never say out loud: the less I tried to fix my grief, the better I felt. My health improved. My relationships deepened. My clarity returned.

Grief isn’t a problem.

It’s a powerful part of being alive — but our fix-it culture doesn’t leave much room for powerful emotions.

And it can make other people uncomfortable when you refuse to shrink your grief.

But if you’re grieving anything — loss, change, identity, transition — you’re in the right place.

Here, you’ll find stories, articles, resources, and events built from lived experience — mine and the women who walk this path alongside me.

Navigating grief can feel overwhelming. As a speaker on grief, I provide compassionate insights to help individuals and communities process difficult emotions and find meaningful ways forward.

I'm currently completing certifications in Death, Dying and Bereavement, followed by grief coaching credentials. Through my speaking engagements in Ottawa, Ontario, I share thoughtful perspectives through grief and loss support, drawing from both education and lived experience.

As a grief speaker, my presentations address various forms of loss, such as death, relationship changes, illness, and life transitions. Each session offers practical insights and emotional validation, creating space for audiences to reflect on their grief journeys.

Whether you're seeking a speaker for your organization, support group, or community event, I tailor content to your specific context and audience needs. Sessions are available both in-person and virtually.

Reach out today to discuss how my speaking services can support your community in navigating grief with clarity and compassion.