Motivational Speaker in Ottawa, Ontario

 UNFIXED is a space for anyone navigating loss, identity struggles, or life transitions. Here, you’ll find articles, podcasts, and resources from inspirational speakers built from lived experience, all designed to help you stop shrinking your emotions and start living authentically. Whether you’re grieving a loved one, dealing with change, or exploring your own identity, you’ll find grief support, validation, and connection here. 

I, KilbyOG, write and speak candidly about grief, identity, and emotional agency—without jargon or clichés. I'm about honest reflection and challenging societal norms that frame grief and vulnerability as problems.

As an Ottawa, Ontario-based motivational speaker, I use my experience to disrupt conventional self-help narratives. Every article, podcast, and talk invites you to engage with your emotions, reclaim your voice, and live authentically without apology.

Grief and identity struggles can feel isolating—but they don’t have to be. I provide a community where you can connect with others walking similar paths through Substack Chat and other discussion spaces. Sharing your story validates your journey and creates understanding for others.

Our grief support approach is empathetic yet challenging, helping individuals feel seen without sugarcoating or “fixing” their feelings. The goal is to support you in experiencing your emotions fully, on your own terms.

As a motivational speaker, I bring honesty and edge to every engagement. My talks, podcasts, and interviews encourage audiences in Ottawa, Ontario, and beyond to question norms around grief, resilience, and emotional agency.

KilbyOG content is designed to provoke thought, spark conversation, and leave you feeling seen, understood, and empowered to engage authentically with your emotions.

 Our society constantly pushes us to fix, control, and tidy our grief. KilbyOG challenges that narrative. Living authentically means giving yourself permission to feel deeply, mourn, and heal in your own way. Grief, identity struggles, and emotional complexity are valid, and experiencing them fully is a radical act of self-respect.